I am an ordinary person who had what I believe to be an extraordinary job.  I am one of those lucky people who got to do what I am passionate about; fostering and educating people not only about sexuality but the authenticity that makes great sex possible.   I decided to specialize in sex therapy because of the couples I had worked with.  I noticed that unless I brought up sex, the client would not.  Once I did broach the subject of sex, the floodgates opened!  Addressing sexuality gave me a more comprehensive picture of each partner and of the relationship itself.   I consider it an honor that my clients trust me enough to reveal the more intimate aspects of their lives.  I understand that it is risky to tell someone else what you truly desire.  I also understand that vulnerability and transparency create an environment where erotic exploration is optimized.  One of my well-honed skills is creating a safe environment where people can talk about sex and learn to communicate with their partners.

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One of my clients once said to me, "I like you!  You are REAL!"  As a therapist and a supervisor,  I am direct and sometimes compassionately blunt.  

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After providing sex therapy for 30 years, I have evolved.  I am no longer seeing clients.   My focus since 2020 has been supervising therapists who want to be AASECT certified and providing consultation on sex therapy cases.  

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If you are looking for sex therapy, please go to this link for a list of professionals in your area: https://www.aasect.org/referral-directory.  If you are looking for AASECT supervision towards certification, I am willing to talk with you.

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